But as with all creatures, these relationships aren’t random.
The highest quality women chose the highest quality men. Times have changed; modern women don’t always need or want guys to take care of them, and guys often want nothing to do with baby-making.
The first guy I properly dated was exactly a year younger than me (we shared the same birthday, I thought it was meant to be) and the last guy I dated was four years younger than me.
I recently found out that a musician I have a crush on is 21. However, women dating younger men isn’t weird to me – my dad is younger than my mum, my uncle is way younger than my aunty and my brother is younger than his wife. Me and my best friends have a running joke that we always fancy hot, younger guys (We’ll always have a thing for fresh-faced indie boys, God love ’em). ) and thought I’d increase my age limit to 39 to see if there were any silver foxes about. You could smell the desperation through the phone – it was like they had their mum breathing down their necks asking for grandkids.
In April of 2012, her friend Benny Medina told that though Lopez understood the significant age difference in the relationship, her main concern was that she was happy.“She’s not oblivious to her own reality right now, as in, ‘Damn, I'm 42 with a 24-year-old,’ Medina said at the time. It’s actually that I just came out of a relationship [with ex husband Marc Anthony] where I felt like I was kind of not getting what I needed.’ ”Lopez told De Generes that after she dated Smart, she got labeled as a woman who goes after younger men. It’s whether or not I’m attracted to them or not, attracted to their spirit, their soul, whatever their energy is.”Clarkson, who was eight months pregnant at the time, got emotional during her performance of “Piece by Piece.” “I’m pregnant, it’s nostalgic, I can’t believe it’s the last season,” she told Ryan Seacrest afterword.
In her opinion, that label—and the stigma surrounding it—should not exist."If they’re older, they’re older. “It’s just a touching song because I wrote it about my little girl when I was pregnant, and now I’m pregnant with my little boy, which I hope comes out very soon.”Poehler delivered her “Sarah Palin Rap” (in front of Sarah Palin) while she was nine months pregnant.
When Jennifer Lopez started spending time with Drake at the end of last year, they joined the list of “are they or aren’t they? Lo opened up a about what exactly she and Drake have been up to—and the stigma attached to older women dating younger men.
“A college cougar is a girl who dates a guy who is not in college yet,” Chelsea says.
Why have we let our gender be tarnished with this lie for so long? When some girls were having sex, I hadn’t even started my period.
I might be 31 but marriage, babies and mortgages are not on my radar.
Our female ancestors of 100,000 years ago were prone to getting knocked up, what with the lack of birth control pills and condoms.
I mean, they hadn’t even invented ‘pulling out’ yet.